When kids are involved, it means other lives are at stake in your decision.
Your divorce is not just "your divorce." You have to think of it as your entire family's divorce. Hard questions need to be asked such as who will care for the kids daily? Who will care for the kids when they're sick? Which parent will be the primary caregiver? Which parent will provide insurance? Where will holidays be spent? Besides these questions about day-to-day living, you'll have the really difficult questions to ask. How do the kids feel about the divorce? Do your children understand the concept of divorce? Are your kids angry about the divorce? Then, your kids will have their own questions to ask you -- hard questions that you will have to answer.
